Had a great weekend with the kids, but I have spotted a trend in the way I am with them that I dont like. I was talking this over last night with Shell (who I'm seeing atm). It seems I am a lot harder/have a shorter fuse with Rhiannon than with Chandler. And I cant put my finger on why. Shell put it down to my expectation of her as a 4yr old and the way I think she should behave, etc, whereas Chandler is still too young to handle most stuff. I think she is right.
Rhiannon can be a head strong little so-and-so half the time (something she has got from her mum and mostly from me), and sometimes I forget that she is only 4 due to the things she says and does. I need to work on this. Being harder on Chandler wont help - I need to change the way I deal with Rhiannon. She is growing up fast and its really scary.

Stayed home last night and did bugger all. Apart from Shell and I doing the Buffy Quizzes on the BBC website :)

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