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A/S/L: 37, Male, Weston-super-Mare, UK
Marital: Relationship
Interests: My kids, movies, music, literature and computing
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REPLIES to your feeling down stuff!!!! - From: Wendy
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Wednesday, 3rd January 2007 @ 18:56
I'm 35. - STILL YOUNG
I'm single LOTS OF MEN WOULD LOVE TO BE (INCLUDING PAUL AS I AM A COMPLETE COW/WEIRDO)
I have 2 kids who I see every other weekend- NOT MUCH I KNOW BUT... I KNOW SOMEONE WHO HASNT SEEN HIS SON FOR APPROX 9 YEARS.
I live in rented accomodation- NOT ALONE ON THIS ONE
I'm mostly broke- DONT MATTER HOW MUCH YOU EARN, IT ALWAYS GETS SPENT!
I'm slightly overweight. ME TOO, THINK WE ARE ALL AT THAT AGE WHERE WE CAN NO LONGER EAT CRAP
My closest friend for the past 3 years is about to desert me. NOT DESERTING YOU. SHE IS JUST DOING MORE WITH HER LIFE.
I feel unloved. LOADS OF PEOPLE LOVE YOU (YOU JUST CANT SEE IT)
My job is going down the shitter. I KNOW YOU CAN SORT THIS ONE OUT!!!
My prospects are just above zero. NOT TRUE
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Wednesday, 3rd January 2007 @ 18:52
End Chapter .....
Start new chapter ...
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You can do it... Yeee hawww - From: Andy
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Tuesday, 2nd January 2007 @ 19:42
I know this sounds all American and weird like those Amway sellers but wth...
If you want to change something in your life, YOU have to change something in your life. YOU...
Make a break. Do something different.. Resign... Go on a course... maybe take up lace doylie making... anything, but do something new.
You'll get over it.. no drugs mind ya.
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Tuesday, 2nd January 2007 @ 12:07
Tudor.
You know what you have to do, cause we have all told you a million time. Listen to us! Your life is only what you make it, and you can always turn it around. Girls come and go, so do friends. I have count myself as one of your mates for a long time now, and I have seen you go though the mill a few time now. Shell needs to make her own life, and just because you are not part of it now, does not mean that is always going to be the case.
My advise to you....
Stop drinking,,, as Homer once said, "to beer, the solution and cause of all our problems"
and go do something you have always wanted to do.
most of all, do Not looking for anyone else, they will find you.
The glass is half full, your problems are only in your mind.
Your life has seen much more pain then what you are currently feeling,.
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Monday, 1st January 2007 @ 23:52
Hi Tudor, you're not alone....
I'm 40.
I may as well be single.
I have 2 kids who I have to look after all the time when I'm not working
I'm mortgaged as far as I can go.
It leaves me broke.
I'm slightly overweight.
My closest friend for the past 15 years has just about deserted me.
I feel unloved.
I sleep with a beautiful woman who I can't touch.
My job is shit.
My prospects are zero.
All I want is to sleep. Enough to recover myself, not the ten or twelve hours a night that my wife thinks she needs, but more than the four or five I grab if I can. To have a day without pain might also help.
You're not alone mate, life is shitting on lots of people at the moment, but for the sake of those kids we need to get on with it. See the quack and try to get some help.
I hate where I am, but am powerless to change it without splitting up my family. I have nowhere left to go. I can't even blog about it anymore.
I wish you the best of luck though in getting yur head straight. If you want to email me, wait until wednesday as the wife will have the computer on all day tomorrow and pick up on anything that comes through.
Roger.
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Monday, 1st January 2007 @ 16:07
Hello Tudds,
Whilst I am sure that things are hard for you at the moment. You should stop and look at all the great things you have done in your life.
You have two wonderful and amazing kids and you have a circle of friends that seem to be really there for you.
I wish I was alot closer to you as a friend as your the kind of guy who I would like to goto the pub with (No no, thats not a chat up line...) but you know what I mean.
I've known you for about 4/5 years and to be honest your someone who I like to know is there because if I am ever in your world we get together and have alot of fun.
2007 will be better than 2006 simply because your growing and changing as a person and your needs and wants will change.
No matter what you think or where you go. People will always be there for you. I know this time of year is difficult and sometimes emotionally distressing.
Just remember that you have two great kids and a circle of friends who really care about you.
I wish you the very best for 2007 - not that you'll need it, You'll be fine. You just dont know it yet.
20Ak6
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